Controlling is a never ending feedback crevasse. You never stop receiving feedback and you should never stop asking for it.
Sometimes though you may receive an endless stream of bad feedback. You’ve now entered the abyss.
First thing is first, don’t let it get you down. It can but don’t succumb to that.
Second, what the heck am I doing?
Third, bit of panic or fear of messing up in the future. Normal.
Finally, you fix the issue once. Then you become more consistent the time after that.
And then you correct the mistake and the loop resets, you start over to fix the next thing that pops up.
Everyone goes through it.