Do you ever lose control in an IFATC session? Where one plane is busting separation with another one. Your plan is falling apart.
Here is a little tip whenever this happens, stop controlling for a few seconds, take a deep breath, ignore the commands in the background.
Think of a plan that will rapidly help you manage all this chaos. Work from the inside out. Start organising one plane, then slowly move to the other one.
Remember, it is normal to lose control and it happens to everyone!